Dating a woman with children feelings
I don’t want to call children baggage, but let’s face it, you’re not looking at him telling you he has a kid with pleasant surprise.
You may be freaking out right now, but before you start hyperventilating, just chill out.
You’re going to have to accept this as being a part of a team.
So, get over your jealous emotions and get involved in your share of the team work. If he wants to introduce you to his kids after the second date, say no.
It’s an adjustment for not only you, but them as well.
They may be temperamental and opinionated around you because they’re hurt.
Including past relationships and sometimes that includes children.
The minute you have children involved, your plans never completely turn out as planned. If you wanted to go to the movies on Friday night, but the kids unexpectedly come over, well, scrap that movie date.
What I’m trying to say is, you’ll need to compromise and accept whatever happens, just go with the flow. [Read: How to be the best girlfriend: 25 ways to leave him addicted] #8 You won’t be sharing “firsts.” He’s a parent which means he’s gone through a lot of “firsts”. So for you, much of this will be completely new but for him, he’s been-there-done-that.
If completing “firsts” together is of great importance for you, reconsider what you want. Since these kids aren’t yours, you’ll have to understand you have limits and boundaries that you can’t cross.
If you’re angry at the kid and swear at him, well, that’s not appropriate.