Attractive people are intimidating

Introverted people get lost in their minds often and come out of them with refreshing and wonderful ideas.When you are with them you are fascinated and feel like a part of the magic because of the way they treat you and let you in on intriguing, new possibilities.And when they do speak, they say just enough to pique your interest and leave you wanting more.

Psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman and colleagues explain that a mind that wonders aids in the process of “creative incubation.” You may already know from experience that our best ideas come seemingly out of the blue when our minds are elsewhere.This makes introverts incredibly fascinating and intimidating at the same time.It is no wonder that they are so extremely misunderstood by the more outgoing and vocal people in our society.In a world that is always in a rush and that can’t stop talking and clamoring for the limelight, the introvert’s cool and laid-back nature is extremely appealing.It is true that introverts are drained by crowds, but they thrive in small groups and one-on-one interactions.

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